Pushing Past Polite
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Make the world more just.
We are Kori and Laura, elder millennial working mamas and colleague besties, with hearts for social justice and a passion for good conversation.
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Divesting from White Supremacy Culture (Pt2). The car salesman and punctuality (Ep.25)
In Episode 25, we continue our conversation about the 15 characteristics of #whitesupremacyculture - a term explained by the work of Dr. Tema Okun - and how it shows up in our lives, in our workplaces, in our systems - even at a weird trip to the car dealership. Kori and Laura share how recognizing, interrupting, and working through moments where you’re caught in a trap of white supremacy culture often involves self-talk.
Divesting from White Supremacy Culture (Pt1). Beyoncé, hustle culture, and eclipse watching. (Ep.24)
In Episode 24, we begin talking about the 15 characteristics of white supremacy culture, as written by Dr. Tema Okun - how it shows up in our lives, in our workplaces, in our systems - even country music and eclipse viewing! In this sneak peek, we shake our heads about a headline, bemoaning the lost productivity during the eclipse (!!!) instead of framing it as a collective moment of awe and wonder. Don’t let #whitesupremacyculture keep you from being fully human.
We see movement! Overton window, TikTok, and Kate Middleton. (Ep.23)
In Episode 23, we talk about what’s coming in November and how we can use our voices to influence policy positions up and down the ballot. And leaders, if you’re listening, we’re safe enough from Tiktok. Can we have healthcare please? #podcast, #podcasting, #pushingpastpolite, #millennials, #friendship, #friendshipgoals, #dialogue, #eldermillennials, #millennialparents, #millennialparenting, #thisis40, #expectbetter, #leadership, #workingmama, #workingmom, #nocensorship, #OvertonWindow, #ceasefire, #genocide, #TikTokBan
Sacred texts. Eddie Murphy, The West Wing, and Phil Collins. (Ep.22)
In Episode 22, Kori, Laura - and Keith share all about their sacred texts - movies, books, shows, and music that speaks to their souls. And when Keith reveals he’s a drummer, Laura says she already knew. How, do you ask? She’s a social media creeper.
#thisis40 #podcast #sacredtexts #favoritemusic #favoritesong #favoritebook #favoritemovie #favoritequote #favoriteshow #90sTV #podcasting #pushingpastpolite #millennials #friendship #friendshipgoals #dialogue #capitalism #eldermillennials #millennialparents #millennialparenting #workingmama #workingmom #nocensorship #artificialintelligence, #socialmedia #facebook, #creeper
Kid passports, billionaires, and McDonald’s fries. (Ep.21)
In Episode 21, Kori and Laura discuss reasons why they might want to spend time living abroad with their kids - and how their partners might feel about it. Oh and don’t mind a well-placed Big Fat Greek Wedding quote. ;) Listen, consider their reasons, and let the gals know what you think!
Personal and professional mentors. With gripe water and a Winnebago. (Ep.20)
On Episode 20, Kori, Laura, and Keith reflect on pivotal mentors in their lives - from academic influences to professionals who championed them to friends who’ve helped them through tough stages - including times with crying babies. Listen and share with people who’ve made a difference in your journey.
Sh*t I used to believe, Ralph Waldo Emerson, and beach volleyball (Ep.19)
In Episode 19, Kori, Laura, and Keith interrogate things they used to believe and share how they’ve evolved as humans. Available anywhere you get your podcasts.
Mammograms, self-advocacy, and a literal pain in the ass (Ep.18)
In Episode 18, Kori and Laura talk preventative care, self-advocacy in doctors’ offices, and equity and justice in medical ethics and care. Your dose of season 3 starts now! Available anywhere you get your podcasts.
Rethinking traditions. Scavenger hunts, red and green flags, and moisturizer. (Ep.17)
Episode 17 - Listen to hear how Laura and Kori are intentionally carrying forward some traditions and purposefully letting go of others that do not serve them. Available anywhere you get your podcasts.
Holiday movies, trees, cards, and meals. But hold the nog. (Ep.16)
In Episode 16, Kori and Laura discuss holiday movies, decorating preferences, whether they send cards, and some must-do family fun.
Use your voice - ceasefire and Election Day. (Ep.15)
Episode 15 is a minipod where we encourage listeners to raise their voices in two important ways - to call for a ceasefire in Gaza and to exercise their right to vote in elections.
Tears for Gaza amidst Disney rides and face farts (Ep.14)
Gaza. It’s absolutely heartbreaking at every turn. In Episode 14, Kori and Laura discuss why nuance is necessary in discussing this conflict, and they lift up what we all should be able to agree on - a commitment to liberation for all people and an outright rejection of hate and bigotry. Listen for ways we can impact change - even a world away.
Adult children of divorce, Stockholm syndrome, and the Golden Bachelor. (Ep.13)
This week, you actually get to hear (and SEE!) our producer, Keith - who actually used hair gel today! He and Laura share their common experience as adult children of #divorce, and Kori weighs in with her usual wit and wisdom. If you’re in a #relationship that’s not healthy for you, then do something differently.
Positive affirmations, the Lion King, and JLo. (Ep.12)
In Episode 12, Kori is all about aligning herself with the power of the universe to create a life of ease, and Laura wonders if the programming of capitalism factors into her limited thinking - and then drops a line from a Mary Oliver poem.
Birth stories with a side of tornadoes and frozen peas. (Ep.11)
Just when you think they reached the pinnacle of vulnerability in sharing about their water breaking and wearing homemade diapers, Kori and Laura share birth stories - with tornadoes and doula details! Episode 11 - listen in.
Pregnancy experiences. Get to the hospital, don’t stop for coffee, and sell tiny cars. (Ep.10)
Episode 10 - Kori and Laura talk pregnancy - the joys of growing a new life, the lows of pregnancy loss, the shock of unexpected pregnancies and lessons learned - like go to the damn hospital as soon as your water breaks! No stops for coffee! Other topics include doulas, when to get the minivan, post-delivery undies, food cravings and aversions. And in our next episode, brace yourself for birth stories!
The power of incremental changes, staying curious, and Billy Joel! (Ep.9)
Kori and Laura are back for Season 2! On Episode 9, they check in with each other (and beloved producer, Keith) on their progress toward ways they wanted to show up for themselves in this back half of the year. Conversations include birthday celebrations, ways to feel healthy and young, kids playing with slime and potty progress, and being a part of positive political change.
Psst...We miss y’all. Crop tops and Flonase.
Kori and Laura are dropping into your feed to say hello, they miss being in your ears, and they’re working on Season 2! In this brief bonus episode, Kori talks about her latest fashion choice, both mamas share some funny kid stories (think puberty, flonase, scooters, and lawnmowers and brothers as speed bumps) and read some generous reviews from listeners. Stay subscribed so you’re among the first to hear the first episode of Season 2!
Invisible labor, intersectionality, and bundt cake! (Ep.8)
In Episode 8, Kori and Laura call listeners to action to speak up and call out behaviors that lead to these differential invisible burdens when all anyone really wants is to be fully human and embrace their own humanity.
Motherhood. What the heck? Call Ghostbusters. (Ep.7)
In Episode 7, Kori and Laura unpack the messages they received about motherhood and how these messages influenced their decisions to parent. Let’s be honest, the conditions around mothering in these here United States are not ideal, so the gals encourage everyone to embrace the adventure - if desired - with eyes wiiiide open - and to find their power to advocate for change. Laugh at nearly chosen baby names and listen to Kori get rejected by her favorite toddler. Share with those you know in the midst of a parenting journey, those considering taking the leap, and even with those who have chosen a different path as an affirmation.